Overcoming Fear

Posted Tuesday, June 16, 2009 2:28 PM by Amy Unger

If you have traveled through Hamilton Co. Indiana this month, you have likely seen a big orange and yellow mass in the sky.  This semi-permanent fixture (through Halloween, anyway) is the latest attraction at one of my favorite places - Conner Prairie Settlement.  Every time we drive by the circa 1859 hot air balloon, which is often, Steven shrieks about how much he wants to go up in it.  Because he has become rather cautious in his old age, I could only figure that he wanted to take this risk because either (A) it is yellow, (B) he has no idea how high it goes, or (C) we just saw the movie "Up" and he thinks the experience will be like a Pixar movie. 

But regardless of why, I was certain he wouldn't actually do it.  So the weekend before last I called his bluff.  He marched into the park with me, walked up to the balloon-ride ticket booth, gazed up at the enormous contraption, and with no fanfare or ruckus quickly turned around and said "I changed my mind, mommy."

No worries, we're Prairie geeks members, so I wasn't out any cash.  I thought maybe we'd try again later.  Sure enough, last Sunday he announced he was going to "really do it this time."  We marched right back into the park, walked up to that ticket booth, and this time made it all the way into an odd, donut-looking metal balloon basket.  I was trying to be nonchalant to keep from spooking him, even though frankly - being a balloon first-timer - I was a bit scared as well. 

As soon as the balloonist latched the gate and announced it was time, I realized Steven was no longer at my side.  I turned to find him swiftly marching right back to the exit door without one word to me.  I managed to persuade him back, then sat him down on the floor so he couldn't see out (the basket wall was a solid three feet up before you could see over the edge through netting).  The balloonist announced that it was going to be a bit bumpy for a few seconds, then I heard a loud, yet little, voice coming up from the floor saying, "I don't want to go up!!", which drew several uncomfortable chuckles from the other passengers.  So I sat next to him and told him it would be fine.

Once we got over the first few bumps, it was a smooth and fast ride up 400 feet.  You can see Steven's furrowed and worried brow during our ascent:

 

At full height, we finally convinced him to stand up and look around.  And let me tell you, he was a changed little boy after he saw how everything looked like a miniture version of itself.  It was a wonderous land of matchbox cars!  He gleefully exclaimed he could see our house, and "grandma's house!," and "grandma's car!" - which of course we couldn't, but it was fun for him anyway. 

It wasn't long before he was poking his head through the basket of the balloon.  I'd say his fear had subsided.

When we finally touched down, the first thing he said as we walked away was "I wanna do that again!"  

Sometimes all it takes is for someone to sit next to you and tell you everything will be all right.  Along with no other choice.  

Comments

# re: Overcoming Fear

Tuesday, June 16, 2009 8:49 PM by Ken Bubp

Could Steven come talk to my 2.5 year old and convince her to set aside her fear? She has 1.) stood safely at the fence, denying she will ever go up, 2.) made it all the way through the ticket line, then backed out, after having gotten on the gondola basket with me, and 3.) talked for a week about wanting the ride the balloon with Mimi, and then backing out at the last second.

(Still, I hold out little hope--this is the girl who won't ride the carousel, even the horse that doesn't go up and down at all.)

Me, I've been up 6 or 7 times. Everytime it is thrilling and I see something I didn't notice before.

Thanks for the great post. I enjoyed it. And thanks to Matt Miller for pointing me to it.

# re: Overcoming Fear

Tuesday, June 16, 2009 9:55 PM by colterphoto1

Great stuff Amy! I have a terrible fear of heights (hence this ranch home so I can clean the gutters close to terra firma) but after reading your story I WANNA GO UP.

# re: Overcoming Fear

Wednesday, June 17, 2009 9:07 AM by Amy Unger

Thanks Ken!  Steven would be thrilled to have a "friend" up in the balloon... Next time we go, we could set up a play-date for them - he can be rather persuasive!  It definitely helped that we followed a 3 year old boy into the balloon, I'm sure that's what actually got him in it.  Never under estimate the power of peer pressure!

Michael - You simply MUST go up. I'm not the best when it comes to heights, either, but I was quickly over it on this ride.  It feels perfectly safe, and I'd never seen my home country from the air.  DO IT!

# re: Overcoming Fear

Wednesday, June 17, 2009 9:41 AM by Conner Prairie

It's great that he enjoyed his flight! I don't think we've had to stop a flight yet (but, the pilots will if requested).

We just wanted to point out that while we'll stop flying around Halloween(-ish), 1859 Balloon Voyage is a permanent exhibit.

Thanks for the post!

# re: Overcoming Fear

Wednesday, June 17, 2009 1:02 PM by Amy Unger

I didn't realize it was going to be permanent!! Very cool!

Thanks for the comment :)

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