Winch,
I am in south Charlotte.....If there is anything that I can help you with, please do not hesitate to contact me, either through here or email: heli001@aol.com
Will be glad to furnish you my phone number upon contact, even if you just need someone outside the "Loop" to talk to.
I truly understand what you are going through, as I went through this with my Dad in 2000.
You and your Family are in my thoughtws,
W. C.
Charlotte, NC