winchester21 Posted September 23, 2010 Share Posted September 23, 2010 I am sad to report that my dad is dying. 10 yr kidney transplant patient- massive kidney failure. I have been dealing with this on a daily basis for the last 1-1/2 months. He will die within the next 2-8 weeks according to the doctors. Have not felt like posting - mixing it up with my frineds on the left- listening to my music- or tweaking my stuff. My mom is not taking this well- dealing with the nursing home- dealing with him or otherwise. I did not want my friends here to think I had just checked out without an explanation. I will be back after this thing plays out. Hopefully sooner than later as there are pain issues in play. Best to all Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest " " Posted September 23, 2010 Share Posted September 23, 2010 please know that your family is in our prayers Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators dtel Posted September 23, 2010 Moderators Share Posted September 23, 2010 Very sorry to hear this, some prayers will be said, be sure to take care of yourself through all of this also. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigStewMan Posted September 23, 2010 Share Posted September 23, 2010 condolences buddy--lost my mom to that very issue a year ago. My sympathies to you and your family. Steve Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tarheel Posted September 23, 2010 Share Posted September 23, 2010 Very sorry buddy....been asking about you at our virtual bar. Glad you posted. I knew something was wrong for you to be away so long. Believe me I know well how you are feeling. Julia is in intensive care as I write and I am completely and totally devastated. I hope for the best possible outcome for you and your father....whatever that may be. Thoughts and prayers from here. Chuck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jason str Posted September 23, 2010 Share Posted September 23, 2010 Don't always take the doctors words to heart, when my granny was on her way out they gave her weak heart a few months max, she lasted years until she fell & broke her hip and was killed by a blood clot. Now if i could only get pops to stop smoking and eating ice cream twice a day. Best wishes for you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HarryO Posted September 23, 2010 Share Posted September 23, 2010 Chris, So sorry to hear it. I'll include your dad and your family in my prayers. You've got the # IF you want to chat. Harry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
USNRET Posted September 23, 2010 Share Posted September 23, 2010 Chris, I am not good at this but you know you are my friend and that I feel for you. Anything, anytime buddy! God Bless. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CECAA850 Posted September 23, 2010 Share Posted September 23, 2010 So sorry to hear your news. I hope you and your family find peace, Carl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MechMan Posted September 23, 2010 Share Posted September 23, 2010 Prayers for you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
winchester21 Posted September 23, 2010 Author Share Posted September 23, 2010 Chuck- I thought about Julia through this mess. Hoped that she was better. given her age -I hope that a transplant or some other miracle is in the cards for you. I have never had to deal with anything like this. The kind words have uplifted me more than you all will know. The people on this forum are all solid gold. I will return after this is over. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arky Posted September 24, 2010 Share Posted September 24, 2010 I hope he is as peaceful as possible. Prayers sent. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daddy Dee Posted September 24, 2010 Share Posted September 24, 2010 so sorry to hear this news. It's a most difficult season for all concerned. just a word of support and caring. prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sunburnwilly Posted September 24, 2010 Share Posted September 24, 2010 So sorry to hear the news Chris . Stay strong for your mom . It's a tough road . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
colterphoto1 Posted September 24, 2010 Share Posted September 24, 2010 Many of us have been down the same path as you my friend. We share our stories with you in hope of giving comfort. I wish your Father a peaceful journey. Take care of family and come back around when you can. Michael Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sputnik Posted September 24, 2010 Share Posted September 24, 2010 Sorry to hear your news. Sounds sadly familiar. As soon as you can find the time, you and your family would benefit by readng this book - "Final Gifts." It was written by two hospice nurses and provides great insight into the dying process. It was recommended to me nine years ago when I lost my father to lung cancer. I re-read it last year when I lost my mother. It's the most valuable book I've ever read. Take care. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jwc Posted September 24, 2010 Share Posted September 24, 2010 condolences to you and family Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fini Posted September 24, 2010 Share Posted September 24, 2010 Chris, thank you for sharing this. My best wishes and love are sent your way. Also for you and Julia, Chuck. Hang in there! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dkp Posted September 24, 2010 Share Posted September 24, 2010 Just another word of support from the troops.... Will keep you and your family in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J.4knee Posted September 24, 2010 Share Posted September 24, 2010 Chris, Very sorry to read this. Will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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