Jump to content

I don't get it.


Taz

Recommended Posts

My nephew graduates in a few days and in addition to offering him 2 pair of Allison speakers to keep.

I also offered to loan him 2 pair of La Scala's and a Marantz 2325.

 

And He says he'll have to think about it!

 

Now if I were single again.  18 years old.  Lived in my own house and someone made an offer like this there would be no THINKING about it.

 

What's wrong with kids now days?

Edited by Taz
Link to comment
Share on other sites

I have promised my khorns to my nephew when I am finished, but after watching what he has done to other things I have already given him, golf clubs, fire arms, pieces of art, I hate to think of what he will do to them or let happen to them, I would much rather someone who loves music be the next custodian of the speakers, now if I can figure out how to make him forget the promise I made many years ago without pissing him off. The inside of his car looks like a bomb went off, yet he thinks it is acceptable and gets snippy if you even look at it. Kids today.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

My nephew graduates in a few days and in addition to offering him 2 pair of Allison speakers to keep.

I also offered to loan him 2 pair of La Scala's and a Marantz 2325.

 

And He says he'll have to think about it!

 

Now if I were single again.  18 years old.  Lived in my own house and someone made an offer like this there would be no THINKING about it.

 

What's wrong with kids now days?

What did your nephew grow up listening too? Has he heard a LaScala based system if so with or without a sub? I know that after I heard my first real rock concert I went to the local audio shop that was a pro based company who sold HiFi and they played my record of the concert material on a set of Altec two ways fifteen inch woofers 288 compression drivers on 511b horns. I figured it was almost like being at the concert and I was hooked. Got a deal on a set of A7 with 811b horns not long after used but working very well and had them for almost a year till my mum told me to move them out of my bedroom because they were too big and too loud. I have been chasing sound ever since. The big old fifteen inch based two way speakers still to this day get so much right. One of my current speakers is a set of JBL L200B with a pair of 2226 woofers in them they are a magical speaker system the LE85 + HL91 in proper working order is a very special sounding transducer. LaScala with its dynamics brings a sense of realism that is near impossible to ignore not to mention the ability to easily play club levels all day long and not break a sweat. That would have me more than just interested. What ever you do find them a home where they will be loved enjoyed and most of all respected. These need to be seen as heirloom speakers that's how I consider them not a commodity to be used up and discarded. Best regards Moray James. Edited by moray james
Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • Moderators
now if I can figure out how to make him forget the promise I made many years ago without pissing him off.

 

If it ever comes up tell him why, if he gets snippy explain that didn't make you feel better about how he takes care of things. 

  • Like 1
Link to comment
Share on other sites

I have promised my khorns to my nephew when I am finished, but after watching what he has done to other things I have already given him, golf clubs, fire arms, pieces of art, I hate to think of what he will do to them or let happen to them, I would much rather someone who loves music be the next custodian of the speakers, now if I can figure out how to make him forget the promise I made many years ago without pissing him off. The inside of his car looks like a bomb went off, yet he thinks it is acceptable and gets snippy if you even look at it. Kids today.

Tell the young man just what you told us and that you have changed your mind having given him years to convince you otherwise. Start looking for someone who cares as you do who shares your values. Perhaps you should become an audio mentor (find some audio nubes who could use and appreciate your experience) and make it your goal to fine the right person to inherit your Khorns. Best regards Moray James.

Edited by moray james
  • Like 2
Link to comment
Share on other sites

Some kids don't like accepting help from people, especially at this age. I don't know your nephew, but that may be the case here. It may be a matter of character. There are plenty of people in the world who will accept handouts. In fact they expect them.

 

Rather than thinking this is a bad thing, think that he may just want to be his own man. Raised right, I say!

  

 

:)

  • Like 1
Link to comment
Share on other sites

Add my sentiment to Mustang Guy's, I was thinking the same thing.  There is not necessarily anything wrong with him or his values.

 

At 18 he needs to be mobile, either going to college or maybe to an apartment at some point.  He may not be thinking in terms of speakers, in particular large speakers right now.

 

I think your offer was generous.  I'm sure he appreciates your gift, and that's what's important.  B)

Link to comment
Share on other sites

I don't think I would loan a pair of Lascalas to an 18 yr. old. ANY 18 yr. old......

 

 

Shakey

 

I know I've done worse things in the past.  I did check with my son and asked if he thought Tristan would take care of the.  Got a positive approval.

 

Some thing wrong with that kid......did mom and dad have blose in the house? Rick

 

No Blow or Bose in that house.  I set my brother up with a Marantz 2270 which Tristan says he really likes.

 

What is his email address? Or get him to join here, we help him avoid all of the mistakes we made.

!

When, NOT if, he takes you up on the offer, get glass tops for them on they will covered in water marks.

 

Right now he does not have email at home.   :(    I've tried to get both him and his brother to join or at least visit this Forum.

 

How would Polycarbonate tops work instead of glass.  I can get the Poly at a building supply cut to size.

 

He wants me to find him a good stereo system.  My thoughts was since he is now renting a nice home and has a job right out of high school I would give him time to find what he wants.

 

He has listened to my Son's La Scala's and likes them.  No sub though.

 

Some kids don't like accepting help from people, especially at this age. I don't know your nephew, but that may be the case here. It may be a matter of character. There are plenty of people in the world who will accept handouts. In fact they expect them.

 

Rather than thinking this is a bad thing, think that he may just want to be his own man. Raised right, I say!

  

 

:)

 

He asked if I had any good speakers that I could sell.  Thus I offered to give him the Allisons.  That stands whether or not he wants to use the La Scala's.

 

I think you may be right as he seemed concerned with the value of the system.

 

He is a good kid or I never would have made him the offer.

Edited by Taz
Link to comment
Share on other sites

I got the same problem TAZ I did not think you had blose  I  was kidding......But I have always taken care of my stuff and do not see kids these days trying to keep heirlooms nice at all. I got my moms and dads stuff which now is impossible to replace. Some times I think I would rather give it to someone who appreciates it than even sell or give to relatives. But then I run into the problem of finding younger people interested in older stuff. All they seem to want are phones and junk. The fact that people pay 500 for a dam phone just infuriates me. I just can't wrap my mind around it. Then when you talk to them about a 500 dollar speaker they roll their eyes. I'm sooo confused....lol..Rick

  • Like 2
Link to comment
Share on other sites

I got the same problem TAZ I did not think you had blose  I  was kidding......But I have always taken care of my stuff and do not see kids these days trying to keep heirlooms nice at all. I got my moms and dads stuff which now is impossible to replace. Some times I think I would rather give it to someone who appreciates it than even sell or give to relatives. But then I run into the problem of finding younger people interested in older stuff. All they seem to want are phones and junk. The fact that people pay 500 for a dam phone just infuriates me. I just can't wrap my mind around it. Then when you talk to them about a 500 dollar speaker they roll their eyes. I'm sooo confused....lol..Rick

I still have a flip phone.....my wife has the hi-tech for the buisness....

MKP :-)

  • Like 2
Link to comment
Share on other sites

I am thinking I will sell my khorns, then just give him the money and be done with it, that way, I wont go crazy with thinking about the speakers well being.

Why??

Rummy....no disrespest, but in your earlier post you said that your nephew was given all that stuff.....imho that's just it....it was "given" not earned.....not worked for.....

I see it all the time at my shop....the kids come in with there cars and mommy and daddy pay for the repairs. The cars were also given to them. $15-$20.....sometimes more...... Honda Accords that are trashed....it gets under my skin....

Now my kids are no angels.....cuz there cars get "crapped" up with stuff....and I get on them to clean it up and they do.

But I did not "give" those cars to my kids.....they paid me the money I had in them.....also they give me the money for the parts to fix them.....I do give my labor.....but they do help me at the shop from time to time...

Anyway...yea the kids of today...I don't know.......but on a side note...I have had a few young people that do look after there cars...they are the ones that have saved up to buy there own ride...hmmmmm

MKP :-)

Link to comment
Share on other sites

 

I don't think I would loan a pair of Lascalas to an 18 yr. old. ANY 18 yr. old......

 

 

Shakey

 

I know I've done worse things in the past.  I did check with my son and asked if he thought Tristan would take care of the.  Got a positive approval.

 

Some thing wrong with that kid......did mom and dad have blose in the house? Rick

 

No Blow or Bose in that house.  I set my brother up with a Marantz 2270 which Tristan says he really likes.

 

What is his email address? Or get him to join here, we help him avoid all of the mistakes we made.

!

When, NOT if, he takes you up on the offer, get glass tops for them on they will covered in water marks.

 

Right now he does not have email at home.   :(    I've tried to get both him and his brother to join or at least visit this Forum.

 

How would Polycarbonate tops work instead of glass.  I can get the Poly at a building supply cut to size.

 

He wants me to find him a good stereo system.  My thoughts was since he is now renting a nice home and has a job right out of high school I would give him time to find what he wants.

 

He has listened to my Son's La Scala's and likes them.  No sub though.

 

Some kids don't like accepting help from people, especially at this age. I don't know your nephew, but that may be the case here. It may be a matter of character. There are plenty of people in the world who will accept handouts. In fact they expect them.

 

Rather than thinking this is a bad thing, think that he may just want to be his own man. Raised right, I say!

  

 

:)

 

He asked if I had any good speakers that I could sell.  Thus I offered to give him the Allisons.  That stands whether or not he wants to use the La Scala's.

 

I think you may be right as he seemed concerned with the value of the system.

 

He is a good kid or I never would have made him the offer.

 

That scene in Karate Kid where Miagi gave him the car was very uncomfortable for me. I could never have accepted that. Like I said, it's about the way you are raised and your character. 

 

If you offer to sell him some speakers at a great discount, then he will have his chin held high if he can afford them.

  • Like 1
Link to comment
Share on other sites

We still had flip phone till other day...I use to tell friends hey I can not text fast I got a dumb phone. Then one my twins gave me an old smart phone. He must have felt sorry for me. I still not sure how to use the dam thing . Kinda like the new AVRs I want a dam knob for tone and volume......and not to have to read a 200 page manual before I can listen to it. Rick

  • Like 1
Link to comment
Share on other sites

Join the conversation

You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.
Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible.

Guest
Reply to this topic...

×   Pasted as rich text.   Paste as plain text instead

  Only 75 emoji are allowed.

×   Your link has been automatically embedded.   Display as a link instead

×   Your previous content has been restored.   Clear editor

×   You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL.

×
×
  • Create New...