Doug- Thanks for your reply! This is my first refinishing project, so your advice is a huge benefit. Now after I remove the old finish, is the avenue of choosing a different color stain still available? My plans are to go after a more oak look, or maybe even something a little darker. And if that is possible, can you recommend a quality brand. Also (just one more question, I promise! LOL) Is there a durable sealant I should apply as a final coat. Three kids (6,5, and 18 months), and accidents happen.
Once again, thank you for taking the time to respond. You've been a great help!