hmmm it wasnt muted,
the strange thing is, it works fine if i output as stereo, for example, 5th element, instead of using the DD 5.1 soundtrack, in the menu options of the dvd (not dvd station or soundcard settings or anythign like that) i can tell it to just use stereo, and setting up the connections the way u said works fine, however when i try to do the same but as DD 5.1 i get no sound at all, thast what made me conclude that it might be coz my soundcard isnt 5.1 and couldnt interpret the signal
any ideas what else could it be?