Bosco-d-gama Posted July 1, 2019 Share Posted July 1, 2019 Wondering if others are experiencing what I am noticing. With age I am starting to look A-LOT like my maternal grandfather. The upside to that is hair. I have the guys hair right down to particular wave patterns. Honestly I find it creepy as I did not really like the man much. He was quite stern and if you crossed him he could be pretty violent. He called it a ‘thrashing’ - a pretty apt description. I never got thrashed because I saw my brother and cousin get thrashed. So I walked on eggs around gramps.......... and now I look more like him every day. It is like he’s haunting me. Ewwww🥴 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators dtel Posted July 1, 2019 Moderators Share Posted July 1, 2019 Genetics can be surprising and not always in a good way. My maternal grandfather had very thick hair that grows very fast and so do I. But my mother had fine hair? I remember when I was a little kid my grandfather would take me with him to his barber, I can remember the barber saying I must be related we had the same thick hair. Our 3 daughters also have thick hair so you seem to be correct. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dirtmudd Posted July 1, 2019 Share Posted July 1, 2019 2 minutes ago, dtel said: Genetics can be surprising and not always in a good way. we can tell by your avatar ! 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bosco-d-gama Posted July 1, 2019 Author Share Posted July 1, 2019 Yeah........ well with the ‘good’ hair comes gramps awful hearing and his difficult cardiac status. I always assumed gramps was hard of hearing due to his career in carpentry...... but that does not seem to be the case. Anyway - I got the heart fixed up for now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators dtel Posted July 1, 2019 Moderators Share Posted July 1, 2019 I don't remember any hearing problems with my grandfather, he did have a little skin cancer which I had already. But he did live well into his 90s, so I'm hoping. But the other side of the family I have less than a year to be the oldest living male ever, I am almost 62, my dad is the one I am trying to beat with the age thing, his dad died when he was so young he didn't remember him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bosco-d-gama Posted July 1, 2019 Author Share Posted July 1, 2019 Of all of my relatives this particular one faired the worse when it came to health and longevity. However, methinx he died prematurely because he allowed his heart conditions to become advanced and then he started having clot related strokes. Everybody else lived long and reasonably healthy. My own parents are both still living (so to speak). Dad turns 90 this October and mom is hot on his heels. No one ever surpassed 100...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babadono Posted July 1, 2019 Share Posted July 1, 2019 Never knew either of my grandfathers, i prolly look just like'em Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ceptorman Posted July 1, 2019 Share Posted July 1, 2019 I was about 6 or 7 when both of my grandfathers passed away. I vaguely remember them. One was in his mid 80s, the other was in his mid 90s when passing. My Dad passed away at 89. I did benefit from my dad's full head of hair. I resemble my dad. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bosco-d-gama Posted July 1, 2019 Author Share Posted July 1, 2019 Guessing some families started much earlier than others. I knew several of my great grandparents. My parents were early birds. Mom was 15 whence mine elder brother was hatched. I am 2 years his junior. I broke that trend. Waited til my late 30’s for the family deal. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coytee Posted July 1, 2019 Share Posted July 1, 2019 I hope genetics skips a generation or three. Maternal Grandmother: Had massive stroke, left her essentially brain dead but breathing. Maternal Grandfather: Had alzheimers Paternal Grandmother: Died of cancer Paternal Grandfather: Died of cancer Mother: Had alzheimers Father: Still alive & kicking turning 90 this year (if he makes it) and doesn't even take as much as an aspirin.... in amazing health. So, if I ever start acting even more weird than I currently might..... well.... I forget what I was going to say. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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