mustang guy Posted November 11, 2013 Share Posted November 11, 2013 Just remember the half plus 8 rule. Divide your age in half and add 8 years. That is the youngest lady you should date according to social acceptability. The problem with that is that if you marry a lady exactly half plus 8, she will fall below that threshold in 2 years or less. I suppose that means you can only stay married 2 years. Check your math. HAHA! You're right! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boxx Posted November 11, 2013 Share Posted November 11, 2013 What do you say to a women who you meet for the first time after all the online hoopla and she turns out to be really ugly? JJK "So you are a Boze girl"...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CECAA850 Posted November 11, 2013 Share Posted November 11, 2013 What do you say to a women who you meet for the first time after all the online hoopla and she turns out to be really ugly? JJK I've got two bags in the car. Let's go. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oscarsear Posted November 11, 2013 Author Share Posted November 11, 2013 What do you say to a women who you meet for the first time after all the online hoopla and she turns out to be really ugly? JJK I've got two bags in the car. Let's go. You guys are bad, bad, bad. I am very surprised by one trend I've experienced several times. Of course the posted photo's are cherry picked - you'd expect that. But on many occasions the prospects show up for the 1st meeting sans any makeup (or very little) and as frumpy as one could imagine. They not only look bad but they look about as bad as possible, intentionally. So I asked a female friend about this. Her take? The ladies want you to accept them au natural, that you should want them not as a painted up hussy but in their more typical presentation. Well, no - I understand that we're all rather ancient, but when you go out and meet somebody you should ALWAYs seek to look your best. It just tells me they're not interested in their looks and expect me to not care. Well, in a way - they're right......... I do not care - to see them anymore. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CECAA850 Posted November 11, 2013 Share Posted November 11, 2013 This is really an interesting topic. Thanks for your take on this. God willing, I hope to never have to use a dating site. Although it's a totally different dynamic, my oldest daughter met her husband at an online dating site. Christianmingle I believe. Originally it's like shopping for a car. Find things you like, weed out the things you don't. Find a list of possible prospects and narrow your search further. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marvel Posted November 11, 2013 Share Posted November 11, 2013 My online stuff started with simple chats with folks. Had some interesting conversations. My wife had not been able to get on the site where we met. She had been a member, but had trouble logging on, so hadn't tried for a month or so. When she tried one day, she was able, and had an email from me. The rest is history. Bruce Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Taz Posted November 11, 2013 Share Posted November 11, 2013 Had a really ugly girlfriend once. No hope for it, she was just ugly. But when the lights were out you couldn't tell the difference, and otherwise she sure was fun. She scared me away when she said she wanted AT LEAST 13 kids. Ugly women need love too. Taz Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mungkiman Posted November 11, 2013 Share Posted November 11, 2013 I had never heard the term "car cute" before dating online. If all the photos are from the shoulders up, there's usually good reason. Not as mean as "T-Rex", but along the same lines... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oscarsear Posted November 15, 2013 Author Share Posted November 15, 2013 Okay, an update......... I just knew you were all waiting for any updates. Had lunch with a gal yesterday. Her website picture - was 8 years ago - she now admits. But she was at least not fat. The real irony here was her name. She had the same exact 1st and last name of another lady I'd was seeing earlier. Creepy. Having coffee later today with a gal who seems as crazy about music as me. She once worked for Infinity Speakers. I am intrigued. She knows what 'clipping' a speaker means. Hmmmmmmm Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CECAA850 Posted November 15, 2013 Share Posted November 15, 2013 You go Oscar! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mungkiman Posted November 16, 2013 Share Posted November 16, 2013 Having coffee later today with a gal who seems as crazy about music as me. She once worked for Infinity Speakers. I am intrigued. She knows what 'clipping' a speaker means. Hmmmmmmm So? How did it go? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oscarsear Posted November 16, 2013 Author Share Posted November 16, 2013 Having coffee later today with a gal who seems as crazy about music as me. She once worked for Infinity Speakers. I am intrigued. She knows what 'clipping' a speaker means. Hmmmmmmm So? How did it go? Omelets, her house - tomorrow morning, I'm cooking.................. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sancho Panza Posted November 16, 2013 Share Posted November 16, 2013 You gonna ring the door bell, or just nudge her? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mungkiman Posted November 16, 2013 Share Posted November 16, 2013 Having coffee later today with a gal who seems as crazy about music as me. She once worked for Infinity Speakers. I am intrigued. She knows what 'clipping' a speaker means. Hmmmmmmm So? How did it go? Omelets, her house - tomorrow morning, I'm cooking.................. Sounds like things went well! Best of luck. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mungkiman Posted November 18, 2013 Share Posted November 18, 2013 2 day omelette, perchance? I once had a 1st date that lasted 7 days. I'm rooting for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oscarsear Posted November 18, 2013 Author Share Posted November 18, 2013 Lunch tomorrow - looks promising. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boxx Posted November 18, 2013 Share Posted November 18, 2013 What women really think.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tarheel Posted November 19, 2013 Share Posted November 19, 2013 Lunch tomorrow - looks promising. This could be the BIG opportunity for Oscar. Let's give him some help guys. I'll go first. 1. Tuck your napkin in your shirt collar....she will think you are sophisticated! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tarheel Posted November 19, 2013 Share Posted November 19, 2013 (edited) Lunch tomorrow - looks promising. This could be the BIG opportunity for Oscar. Let's give him some help guys. I'll go first. 1. Tuck your napkin in your shirt collar....she will think you are sophisticated! 2. While still at the table after your meal....offer her the toothpick first...she will think you are polite. Edited November 19, 2013 by Tarheel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oscarsear Posted November 19, 2013 Author Share Posted November 19, 2013 Proceeding with caution.............. being afforded lot's of leeway (ahem)............. leery that I'm being offered enough rope to hang myself with............. trying to tell myself 'not' to over-think the conundrums or sweat the small stuff. Relax, breathe deep, enjoy the ride and the scenery, smell the roses.............. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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