Tom Adams Posted October 15, 2007 Share Posted October 15, 2007 Some of you long-timers might remember that last year I posted a thread about my wife leaving me and the subsequent almost a year of living apart. The short version is that in February of this year (Feb. 13th to be exact which just happens to be my birthday) she said she had finally made up her mind and she wanted a divorce. Nice birthday gift, eh?? Actually, in hindsight, it has indeed turned out to be a great gift (more on that in a moment). <?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /> So, I try every means possible to buy our house on my own, but sadly, there just was no way. In the mean time, our living apart and trying to maintain two residences soaked us financially. And to make matters worse, she, the corporate finance/accountant person whom I trusted and believed in, basically ran us into the ground since she was still handling all our finances. I know, I know big mistake. I was in love (or I thought I was). Its a long convoluted story, but the bottom line was that we were literally broke in the worst way. But..I had my health, my dog, my Klipsch speakers, and a good job what more could I want?? During this upheaval period, I also reconnected with God and got back to being involved with my church and started meeting some very nice folks. Life was getting better & better and the Ex was fading fast as I concentrated on God and myself (in that order) - I even had the occasional dinner date. One afternoon a friend calls and asks me to meet her and her friends for a drink. I decline. She begs and I give in. I get to this place (late) that Ive never been to before and wouldve never have gone to otherwise. Its obvious from the stares that this is a locals local bar and judging from the size of the belt buckles, I was wondering if I might have to fight my way out. Ok so it wasnt that bad. Anyhow. I spy this very attractive lady who oddly is looking in my direction. I smile, she smiles, I get nervous (cause no female has ever eyed me) and my friend gives me grief for being too shy to go over and introduce myself. Next thing I know, someone is tapping me on the shoulder. Her: Hi, my name is Donna. How are you? Me: Uhhhh.fine. Her: Ok lets try this again. I say hi, my name is Donna and you say, my name is ???? Me: Oh, sorry. My name is Tom. Well, we chat for some time and dance a couple of times and I ask if I can call sometime and possibly get together for dinner to which she says yes. That was 6 months ago and since then, my already great life has gotten even better. So good in fact that you can read about it here: http://www.coastalcourier.com/news/article/3422/ Tom Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daddy Dee Posted October 15, 2007 Share Posted October 15, 2007 Wow, Tom. Congrats! and best wishes to Donna and for your life together. Glad to hear things are going in the right way for you. Blessings, Dee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
garymd Posted October 15, 2007 Share Posted October 15, 2007 Congrats Tom! Glad things worked out for the best. So, who got the picture? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators dtel Posted October 15, 2007 Moderators Share Posted October 15, 2007 Well good for you Tom, glad to see your happy. So what does she think of your speaker thing ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bodcaw boy Posted October 15, 2007 Share Posted October 15, 2007 excellent ending tom and congrats to you and your new wife!!! you guys look good together. and i also hope that you stay connected to God... have a blessed day, roy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bill H. Posted October 15, 2007 Share Posted October 15, 2007 Tom, Many blessing to you and your Wife............Peace. Bill H. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J.4knee Posted October 15, 2007 Share Posted October 15, 2007 WOW congratulation a spledid ending indeed. Wishing you many years of hapiness, wedded bliss and Klipsch (she does know about them right[]) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Duke Spinner Posted October 15, 2007 Share Posted October 15, 2007 Congrat's, Tom ..... you certainly deserve it .....[<)] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oldbuckster Posted October 15, 2007 Share Posted October 15, 2007 Love, Peace, and Happiness !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
customsteve01 Posted October 15, 2007 Share Posted October 15, 2007 Congats Tom, I was just wondering how you were doing the other day. I am glad to see that you are doing great. Steve Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jacksonbart Posted October 15, 2007 Share Posted October 15, 2007 Top Notch! Congrats. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tom Adams Posted October 16, 2007 Author Share Posted October 16, 2007 Congrats Tom! Glad things worked out for the best. So, who got the picture? LOL......I got the picture Gary (the picture Gary is referring to is a pencil sketch portrait of various images of Frank Sinatra that I got from Gary) and it's hanging in our home. Shoot - I got all the A/V equipment and all the stuff that was in the HT room. The Ex pretty much gave me everything. And a heart felt thanks to all of you for your kind words. I know that Donna & I's romance has the perception of being whirl-wind, but she & I had some very long, honest, heart-to-heart conversations about what we were doing, what we wanted, where we wanted to go, etc., etc. In the end, we believe that God brought us together and that although we're not perfect - we're perfect for each other. Having said all that, I must confess that all is not perfect. I mean...... Are you ready for this????? My Cornwalls have (fake) plants on them. [] But all is not lost. I've been given the green light to build a 20' x 24' garage/work shop - a true man cave. You know, with running hot & cold water, toilet, CATV, etc. And there lies my next challenge - to put together a b*tchin' garage sound system!! [] [Y] Again - thanks for the nice comments. I'm humbled by your well wishes. [] Tom Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fini Posted October 16, 2007 Share Posted October 16, 2007 That's great, Tom! Best of luck to you both. Congratulations!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigStewMan Posted October 16, 2007 Share Posted October 16, 2007 Very happy for you Tom. Especially nice to hear that you kept your priorities in the right order--putting God first! I'm not surprised that you're finding happiness now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oldbuckster Posted October 16, 2007 Share Posted October 16, 2007 I be real careful with that Man's Room ............... You might end up living in it...................[:$] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JohnA Posted October 16, 2007 Share Posted October 16, 2007 KUOL, Tom!!! God Bless you both! Live smarter and love her like she deserves. [] Does she like the FeeJer? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coytee Posted October 16, 2007 Share Posted October 16, 2007 Having said all that, I must confess that all is not perfect. I mean...... Are you ready for this????? My Cornwalls have (fake) plants on them. [] Great for both of you!! As for the plants on the Cornwalls... the easy fix is swap em out for some Jubilees! The Jubilee has GOT to be the most 'anti-plant-on-top' speaker made! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
picky Posted October 16, 2007 Share Posted October 16, 2007 Hey congrats, Tom! I'm glad things worked out for you both! Best wishes for a long life together! [D] -Glenn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DrWho Posted October 17, 2007 Share Posted October 17, 2007 So does this mean we'll see less or more of you around these parts? Congrats Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tom Adams Posted October 17, 2007 Author Share Posted October 17, 2007 I be real careful with that Man's Room ............... You might end up living in it...................[:$] LOL.....Hey OB....when I was "spec'ing out" the garage/workshop, Donna asked why I needed the plumbing and all that other jazz. And I said it's so when I'm in the dog house I'll have a comfortable dog house to go to!!! LOL [] Tom Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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